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I really hated this book. I can't relate at all to the author's assumptions that everything you find difficult about looking after a kid (even a baby) goes back to the way you yourself were neglected as a child. Honestly, babies are just a LOT of work, and it's completely reasonable to get fed up, e Leggi tutto

I’m not reading this as a future parent, but solely for figuring out why I feel what I’m feeling. Being in my mid 20s sometimes made me realized that “I am not supposed to be treated this way” by my parents. It’s a fact that I find it hard to accept, since I have been seeing them as a perfect pair. I Leggi tutto

This was an interesting read insofar as it pushes the boundaries of how useful a parenting guide can be without considering patriarchal power. Unlike the vast majority of parenting guides, Philippa Perry's The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read gives mostly sensible, empathetic advice for how to re Leggi tutto

كتاب جميل .. حكيم .. عقلاني للوهلة الأولي ستشعر أنك تقرأ بديهيات في أسس التربية لكن إذا نظرت حولك ستجد الانحدار الأخلاقي الذي يملئ الأجيال الحالية وكله بسبب سوء التربية .. إذا فما بالكتاب أمنية نتمني أن تحدث معالجة نفسية عن العلاقة بين الأباء والأبناء علاقة الصداقة والحب واللين ..كيف تكون صديقا لطفل Leggi tutto

This is a lovely book for anyone starting a family. I skimmed some as my children are virtually adults and from what I've read I completely agree with Philipa. Give your children loads of patience, attention, be there for them whenever they need you and they should grow into happy independent indivi Leggi tutto

Has some sensible but not earth-shattering advice about listening to and validating feelings. Overall it advocates a very intensive parenting style that in my view we can't possibly have evolved to need (it's telling that the author only had one child). It comes across as more opinion than evidence- Leggi tutto

بدأت قراءة هذا الكتاب بالأمس وأنا في العمل خلال فترات الراحة، وحينما بدأته وجدت أني في حاجة لعزلة، وفي حاجة لالتهامه كوجبة دسمة على مرة واحدة! وضعني الكتاب وجهاً لوجه مع ذكرياتي، ومشاعري السلبية خلال مرحلة الطفولة. بالرغم من أني سأقول كما يقول الأغلب أن طفولتي كانت سعيدة وكنت فتاة مدللة ووو لكن، هناك ب Leggi tutto

What one thing your 90 years old self would be grateful of with yourself today? Working on my childhood trauma. Judulnya memang menarik. Kalau baca sinopsisnya, bisa ditaksir buku ini membahas tentang pengasuhan anak. Tapi kan aku nggak akan punya anak, why did I read this? Jadi penyintas dari relasi Leggi tutto