Eccitazione. La logica segreta delle fantasie sessuali

This is a marvelous book. At the very end, Bader tosses off a sweeping philosophical statement that provides a key to his thinking. In a few sentences, he discards the Freudian fantasies of perverted, sadistic children whose original impulses are more or less directly expressed in adult human "perve Leggi tutto

This author has helped me understand my own sexuality. As a survivor of rape this book has revolutionised my love life. I have been set free from survivor guilt.

This book is an embarrassment of riches on understanding sexual fantasies without judgment and with a focus on to the inner self. Reading the book is a little bit like getting psychoanalyzed, but in a very good way. Why do we fantasize the way we do in all our individual peculiarities? Because our b Leggi tutto

This book attempts to apply psychoanalytic techniques to sexual desire and it goes about as well as you'd expect. I'd wager most readers will come away with a less accurate self model than if they'd never encountered this work. Here is a particularly egregious example. The author writes, on rape fan Leggi tutto

Great book مشاعر الذنب ... . . كأطفال ، لا نحتاج جميعًا إلى التواصل مع والدينا فحسب ، بل أيضًا إلى الانفصال التدريجي عنهم. نحن بحاجة إلى الإعجاب ، و أن نكون محور حياة والدينا ؛ لكننا نحتاج أيضًا إلى الشعور بالكفاءة والقوة المتزايدة في قدرتنا على التغلب على العقبات والسيطرة على التحديات. نريد في النهاية Leggi tutto

Δεν υπολογίζει ότι ανάλογα με το σύντροφο-άλλο υπάρχει περίπτωση να ανακύψουν τελείως ετερόκλητες φαντασιώσεις. Υπάρχει περίπτωση να εντοπίσει κάποιος τον εαυτό του σε πολλές περιπτώσεις. Επίσης μου έδωσε την εντύπωση ότι ερμηνεύει κάθε περίπτωση με τρόπο σαν να ήταν αυτή η μοναδική ερμηνεία. Ψηλοί Leggi tutto

I dug for silver but I found gold in this book. My preconceptions were that (because of the title obviously) this book would be predominantly and perhaps only about sexual fantasies and their meaning. It's much more than that. Bader presents a theory about sexual arousal itself, based on his clinica Leggi tutto